You will gain best results by bringing to the meeting your lawyer, financial advisor and accountant. Why? They are obliged to work for you in a team environment and hopefully on the same page. Make sure there is no posturing as to who is in control or smarter. Each professional should be able to add valuable insights to create a better plan which takes care of your needs. Make sure all advisor's are kept in the loop as you move through development of the plan. Since a number of professional advisor's are not accustomed to working in a team, sometimes they forget to tell the rest of the team what they are attempting to do for the client.
