There are many functions business people are asked to attend and how do they choose which one to attend ? If you are anything like myself you could be out every day in a function and justify it is good business development . Well , all of them are not equal or worthwhile to go to . I have become more selective over the years to choose which " dog and pony " show I chose to go . I got tired of being out all to often and being bored to death . I now chose which function I go to by having a criteria . Saying no to functions has become easier , maybe it is due to attending functions which were similar to going to a dentist for a root canal. Focusing on objective for going , choosing when to arrive and when to exit is crucial .